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9,680 hits Rate me! Share Favorite | Flag 17 years ago by ang2pang

Does knowing someone`s secrets make you feel uncomfortable?


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17 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Friday 12/10/04 - 8:15:35 PM EST (GMT-5)
i think when im the only one who knows the secret, it's uncomfortable.
17 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Friday 12/10/04 - 8:17:43 PM EST (GMT-5)
Sometimes it does. Only with people who's secrets I don't want to know. The people I don't care about, in other words.
17 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Friday 12/10/04 - 8:22:52 PM EST (GMT-5)
Kinda. Because if it gets out i don't want them to think I said anything.
17 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Friday 12/10/04 - 8:35:11 PM EST (GMT-5)
Not usually.
Unless I was being tortured.
17 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Saturday 12/11/04 - 5:38:12 PM EST (GMT-5)
No, I like hearing people's secrets.
17 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Tuesday 12/14/04 - 6:19:18 PM EST (GMT-5)
Well, yes if its a secret about them doing something wrong. Like, I wouldn't want someone to be like "don't tell anyone, but I just killed a guy!"
But usually, no, I'm ok with it.
17 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Tuesday 12/14/04 - 6:50:06 PM EST (GMT-5)
Not at all, if they tell me the secret themselves it makes me feel good to know that they trust me.
17 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Tuesday 12/14/04 - 7:16:40 PM EST (GMT-5)
Not really.. It just bothers me when everyone has some huge secret about my and I don't know it
17 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Tuesday 12/14/04 - 7:16:44 PM EST (GMT-5)
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17 yrs ago, 6 mos ago - Wednesday 2/2/05 - 12:50:56 PM EST (GMT-5)
No I'm used to people telling me stuff. I actually like it. In a way, I feel like their shrink.

The kind they don't have to pay $200 an hour, that actually CARE about their problems and that actually listen.

17 yrs ago, 6 mos ago - Wednesday 2/2/05 - 12:51:58 PM EST (GMT-5)
No - it actually makes me feel good to know I'm trusted and I take that very seriously.
17 yrs ago, 6 mos ago - Wednesday 2/2/05 - 1:05:56 PM EST (GMT-5)
Nah, I'm just glad they trust me enough to tell me.
17 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Saturday 3/19/05 - 9:12:43 PM EST (GMT-5)
no, im glad they trust me enough to tell me. sometimes tho i wanna tell someone else sooo bad but i cant tell and never do. and usually when i first find something out its all i think about when i see them but i get over it.
17 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Sunday 3/20/05 - 7:09:32 PM EST (GMT-5)
It's nice that they trust me, but if it's the kind of secret that worries me, then I'll feel uncomfortable.
17 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Sunday 3/20/05 - 7:11:51 PM EST (GMT-5)
Knowing secrets of one half of a couple is definitely uncomfortable. It puts you in a moral dilemma (sp?). Like, when my best friend was cheating on her boyfriend, it was the hardest thing in the world for me to keep the secret when I was out with the both of them. Mostly because I didn't know if it was the right thing for me to do.
17 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Tuesday 3/22/05 - 5:02:48 PM EST (GMT-5)
Only when a person doesn't know him/herself well will knowing another's secret make him/her uncomfortable.

You could tell me all your secrets and it wouldn't make me uncomfortable. I would never be tempted to divulge them. I do believe that people should treat others (and their secrets) as they would choose to be treated.

It works for me.

17 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Tuesday 3/22/05 - 5:36:34 PM EST (GMT-5)
If it's anyone besides my boyfriend, yes.
17 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Wednesday 3/30/05 - 9:37:42 PM EST (GMT-5)
No it's terrific that that particular person would trust me with their secrets.
17 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Saturday 6/18/05 - 4:47:19 PM EST (GMT-5)
It would depend on the person and the situation.
17 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Saturday 6/18/05 - 4:48:18 PM EST (GMT-5)
Slightly, because then I might be more likely to blab them.
17 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Saturday 6/18/05 - 4:49:27 PM EST (GMT-5)
I usually forget them, then remember them when it's too late.
17 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Saturday 6/18/05 - 4:53:20 PM EST (GMT-5)
Its sure does when they dont know that I know.
17 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Saturday 6/18/05 - 4:58:15 PM EST (GMT-5)
nah it makes me feel evil cause I usually use it for blackmail, unless we're really close and then it doesn't bother me. My favorites are the secrets I can use against my cousins...those are fun.
17 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Monday 6/20/05 - 11:55:39 PM EST (GMT-5)
Only if it's like, that they're transexual or something.
17 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Monday 6/20/05 - 11:56:33 PM EST (GMT-5)
If the person has told me themselves, then no.

But if i know through someone else, then i would feel uncomfortable, because i would know a lot more about someone than they realised.


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