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3,581 hits Rate me! Share Favorite | Flag 17 years ago by Bon

Do you think it is emotionally harder to call off an engagement or call off a marriage?


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17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Monday 7/18/05 - 3:55:50 PM EST (GMT-5)
After you've been married to someone so long, you get attached. Then again, you could not love that person anymore. Either way about it, it's probably equal.
17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Monday 7/18/05 - 3:56:11 PM EST (GMT-5)
Unless there is children involved.
17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Monday 7/18/05 - 3:59:03 PM EST (GMT-5)
If you're a woman in a romantic comedy, you can do either one in 5 minutes without feeling regrets.
17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Thursday 7/21/05 - 10:45:47 PM EST (GMT-5)
I'd have to say an engagement. At that point, you're not yet sick of your partner
17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Thursday 7/21/05 - 10:59:23 PM EST (GMT-5)
Marriage, there's more of a commitment that you may feel guilty for breaking. By then you probably share alot of things and it can get complicated.
17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Thursday 7/21/05 - 11:23:47 PM EST (GMT-5)
Emotionally and engagement because of all the hype leading up to the acutal wedding. If I got to the point of filing for dovorce it would be emotionally over for me long before the papers were signed.
17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Thursday 7/21/05 - 11:49:15 PM EST (GMT-5)
Ahem, you don't just CALL OFF a marriage. It's WAY better to call of the engagement than to just divorce from a marriage. Marriage is a sacred bond.
17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Friday 7/22/05 - 10:00:06 AM EST (GMT-5)
Engagement.
17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Friday 7/22/05 - 11:51:06 AM EST (GMT-5)
a marriage is harder... unless its a reschedualing thing
17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Friday 7/22/05 - 12:42:34 PM EST (GMT-5)
I have no idea. I think maybe a marriage.
17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Friday 7/22/05 - 12:43:50 PM EST (GMT-5)
I would think a marriage, but I wouldn't know.
17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Saturday 7/23/05 - 12:43:39 AM EST (GMT-5)
I dont know..they'd both be really hard..
17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Saturday 7/23/05 - 12:51:57 AM EST (GMT-5)
The marriage is an economic crisis as well as a love dump. That 5-foot ice swan is non-refundable, and you're a real a-hole if you return liquor. In my town you get shot on principle for that sort of thing.
17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Saturday 7/23/05 - 1:49:34 AM EST (GMT-5)
I hope to call off nether but Im sure the marrige would be much much harder.
17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Saturday 7/23/05 - 10:10:44 AM EST (GMT-5)
engagement...just because. i dont really know how to explain it. but usually when you get a divorce you really hate eachother.
17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Saturday 7/23/05 - 11:53:49 AM EST (GMT-5)
GOOD QUESTION! Bon, have you been there?? Calling off an engagement would be very hard to do. I wanted to do that for MOST of my engagement, and I didn't have the guts. I'm very glad I didn't, but at the time, I doubted my motives and wishes for my future almost from the second I got engaged. I couldn't bring myself to break her heart, though, and it turned out REALLY WELL. If I'd broken it off, I'd have hurt her even MORE than I suspected, and I'd have hurt myself even worse. If things go bad, though, and I have good reason to break the marriage (God forbid!!), that would be a lot easier to to. I could cop self-righteousness, at that point.
17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Saturday 7/23/05 - 5:11:17 PM EST (GMT-5)
Marriage, especially if you have children.
17 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Sunday 7/31/05 - 6:04:26 PM EST (GMT-5)
Probobly a marriage.
17 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Sunday 7/31/05 - 6:08:34 PM EST (GMT-5)
I would think it would be harder to end a marriage.

I just think theres a different, stronger type of emotional attatchment there after a marriage. Especially if the person was waiting until marriage to have sex.

17 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Wednesday 8/3/05 - 7:39:53 AM EST (GMT-5)
Both would be tough to get through.
17 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Wednesday 8/3/05 - 2:56:39 PM EST (GMT-5)
marriage I think... At that point there is more time together, and in my opinion usualy a stronger bond.
17 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Wednesday 8/3/05 - 7:50:38 PM EST (GMT-5)
Probably a marriage. In an engagement, at least you call it off early. For marriage, suffering with a person for years or months or days seems worst.
17 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Wednesday 8/3/05 - 11:14:47 PM EST (GMT-5)
Marriage, definitely.
17 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Thursday 8/4/05 - 2:29:53 PM EST (GMT-5)
Marriage - there is usually more involved legally, emotionally, financially, and with kids, possibly...etc.

For an engagement - you could always run away the week of your wedding and make your loved ones believe that you have been kidnapped, then recant your story in a phone call when you realize what a dumbass you have been...:P

16 yrs ago, 9 mos ago - Wednesday 11/30/05 - 7:31:45 AM EST (GMT-5)
Divorce. You have been through way much more.

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